All in
How to make love stick
Written by Vinko Anthony
Published by Broadcast Books
For gay men, dating apps can create the illusion of infinite options. But behind the endless swiping lies a truth: real love is not about choice overload, it’s about depth.
When Vinko Anthony and Andrea Zaza met, they faced their own choice. A holiday romance spanning Australia and Europe could have been just a fling. Yet they decided to listen – to themselves, to each other, and to what they truly wanted. That listening became the foundation of a lifelong commitment. They went all in.
All In is a love story and more.
Vinko invites us to see love differently. He takes us on a journey into what it means to show up fully for another person, to embrace vulnerability, and to rediscover the art of courtship in a world that has forgotten its value.
What works? What makes love last? These are some of the questions All In answers. It is for gay men, for anyone searching for connection, and for all who believe that love, nurtured with patience and presence, can change everything.
“A clarion call to shed the masks we wear and embrace our true selves. This book is a powerful guide to finding love – authentic, transformative love – by first learning to love who we are. It is a must-read for anyone who is ready to embrace vulnerability and step into a life full of love, joy and soulful connection.”
— Mandy McElhinney
About the author
Vinko Anthony was born in Croatia (then Yugoslavia), in 1971 and immigrated to Australia. From an early age, he showed a strong entrepreneurial spirit – running small businesses at the age of thirteen while still studying. This drive evolved into founding his own global company at the age of 40. Over the years, he has built a truly international career across various fields – from high-end fashion to alternative medicine, healing and yoga. What has always defined Vinko’s world are the friendships he has nurtured and his deep belief in making life a more joyful, meaningful place for others. Alongside his business ventures and life experiences, Vinko has always been writing and painting. This book brings together his personal journey, professional path and relationships, with the intention of inspiring others to live fully and embrace life with love and authenticity. Vinko lives in Sydney with his husband Andrea.
To Bernadette Foley – thank you for believing in All In exactly as it was meant to be. You were the only person in the publishing world who didn’t try to reshape it into something else, and that trust gave me peace and confidence from the very first moment we met. Vinko Anthony
Published: December 2025
Trade paperback
RRP AU$34.95
216 pages
ISBN: 978-1-7638250-6-2
Ebook RRP: AU$16.95
Ebook ISBN: 978-1-7638250-7-9
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